Next day in morning I woke up early because I could not sleep the whole night thinking what will be happening next and how will I be able to survive the 30 days as a girl in someone else house, who will be my husband.
All the thought kept haunting me completely.
After I got fresh I wore an suit salwar and went to kitchen, my mom was already there. She wished me and asked did I slept well, I told no mom I could not sleep at all the complete night thinking what will happen next.
Mom smiled and told don't worry beta they will keep you as a daughter only and you will be able to admire your feminine part more deeply and you will be able to respect the girl life more. In every girl life it is most important moment when she leaves her mom house and go to her husband house.
Then she told me that my mother in law have consulted the pandit ji and he has told that the best day for me to step in as bride in there home is next week Monday. So I got 3 more days at my home and for lots of shopping as I will require too many clothes makeup and items in my new home. All the cost is born by my future mother in law.
So for next three days I and mom did lots of shopping for me and then my mom took me to a jeweler to shop for jewelry. We took many things including mangalsutra, payal eating nose pin etc.
Then in jewelry shop itself the jeweler made hole in my ears and nose so that I can wear eating and nose pin easily.
Now I was completely ready to be a bride.
Finally the day arrived.
In morning mom made me to take bath and helped me to get ready in traditional attire with all the jewelery and everything. I was looking like a bride.
My mom started crying saying khushboo you look so beautiful in it.
Then after 1 hr my mother in law and father in law came with pandit ji. Pandit ji started all the ritual to get me enrolled in new family as a bride for 1 month.
But wait were was my husband.... .. .
I was confused... . .
Then mom told in this trial period I will not be directly wedded to my husband but instead my mother in law will do the rituals. I am on trial period for mother in law.
So after some time my mother in law on order from panditji made me wear mangalsutra and filled my forhead with sindoor. I touched her feet snd took blessing.
I was having Ghonghat all the time and then I sat in car to go to my new home.
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